As a long practicing Massage Therapist, whenever a client wouldn’t schedule after their appointment I would always say, “I am here whenever you need me.” And I meant it. Fast forward 22 years, and I am now standing on the precipice of my own move and evolution as a person, a therapist, an artist. I am the person who isn’t rescheduling………..
In a very vulnerable way, I have gone through the emotional tumult of feeling as though I’m not keeping my word. I have always been a loyal kind of girl; once I call someone my friend they are my friend. Period. As a lot of us do, I never thought things would change. I thought that I would always be here for my clients and I could be, at times, the one stable place that they could come to to get out of the chaos of daily life. And then…………things change, life happens and we either recognize it, readjust our sails and lean into it or we resist it and allow the friction to envelop us.
Clay has taught me that, as in life, there are more things in motion than I am aware of. I may have a “fixed” idea of how I want a piece to turn out and honestly, that just sets me up for either disappointment or revelation, and it’s all about how I view it. With our impending move to the mountains of Western North Carolina all of the seats of the emotional roller coaster are available to me. It’s my choice which one I sit in. Should I sit in the front seat leaning into the wind, the change and the excitement? Or do I sit in the back with a look of abject terror strewn across my face, hoping and praying the bird that just flew by doesn’t crap in my face? The position I choose changes on a daily basis, sometimes hourly. But, in a beautiful, messy, sort of way, that’s what the freedom to choose is all about. Our emotional “being-ness” isn’t supposed to be a final destination, it’s a journey.
As I say Goodbye to all the clients and friends that I have made over the past few decades, I know, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that I will STILL be there whenever they need me. In this chapter, it may be a phone call, a thought, a wish of light moving toward them, but I will hold them in my heart wherever change takes us all. And I know, just as the sun rises tomorrow, they will be there for me.